tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11957655.post112128455446401249..comments2023-09-19T03:52:06.002-04:00Comments on Logical Ramblings by AyanaRED: Best Friends ForeverAyanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01545328010792184271noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11957655.post-1121812408060759512005-07-19T18:33:00.000-04:002005-07-19T18:33:00.000-04:00This is Eboni. RS from high school? Hmmm...This is Eboni. RS from high school? Hmmm...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11957655.post-1121691586775615622005-07-18T08:59:00.000-04:002005-07-18T08:59:00.000-04:00Hey Neci (Big Head),I know that I shouldn't have s...Hey Neci (Big Head),<BR/><BR/>I know that I shouldn't have said anything. I had actually planned not to say anything about it at all. It was just still at the tip of my tongue - and I got defensive - so it came out. I already apologized for it and everything.<BR/><BR/>But that part doesn't really matter (to me, anymore). I realized that the reason, I was holding on for so long was because I never knew WHY we stopped being friends. I thought that I actually did something to her that I should feel really bad about and apologize for. But now I know that I really DIDN'T do anything. And the problems that I thought were there were all in her mind.<BR/><BR/>So this non-reunion did serve a purpose. I feel like I got closure. You know how I am, I always want to be in the right - and if I am not - I want to get there. However, I can't get there if I don't know what I did wrong. But since I didn't do anything wrong - I feel relieved or something.<BR/><BR/>The friendship DID mean a lot to be - but I am surely not about to be playing no dumb games and walking on egg shells just to BEG the girl to be my friend. I am really not THAT pathetic (LOL). I already know that I was a really good friend to her (and those that know me know what kind of friend that I am).Ayanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01545328010792184271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11957655.post-1121679906482146972005-07-18T05:45:00.000-04:002005-07-18T05:45:00.000-04:00Yeah! I agree with Neci!Yeah! I agree with Neci!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11957655.post-1121634621800555622005-07-17T17:10:00.000-04:002005-07-17T17:10:00.000-04:00O.K. first, know when to just keep your mouth shut...O.K. first, know when to just keep your mouth shut. it seems obvious to me that RS can be easily led to believe something that may not be true about you and your relationship with her. and if she has been with this guy for a long time and she hasn't even spoken to you in 3 yrs. do you really think she wants to hear about his profile on thefacebook or that he tried to talk to you before from you? NO. it's college most boys do that anyway, especially freshman year, everybody's not like VP. you have to really learn where your boundaries are with certain people, you can't always say what's on your mind all the time, sometime there is a better opportunity waiting where it can be received by the other person and even though you guys WERE the best of friends it will never be like it was,know that. you don't know her, not in 2005, she has obviously grown in a different direction than you have. if you want to be close friends again, give yourself a chance to get to know her for who she is today, before you get up in her business, you may not even want to be her friend anymore. Slow down you have plenty of time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com